Parent Power

The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unwanted Pregnancy released their "With One Voice" survey in December. Here are some results.

Teens continue to say that parents (46%) most influence their decisions about sex. By comparison, just 20% say friends most influence their decisions. There is a large body of social science research suggesting that overall closeness between parents and their children, shared activities, parent presence in the home, and parental caring and concern are all associated with a reduced risk of early sex and teen pregnancy. Teens who are close to their parents and feel supported by them are more likely to delay sex and to have fewer sexual partners.

80% of teens say that it would be much easier for teens to delay sexual activity and avoid teen pregnancy if they were able to have more open, honest conversations about these topics with their parents. Parents should consider clarifying their own attitudes and values by thinking about the following kinds of questions:
What do you really think about school-aged teens being sexually active? Who is responsible for setting limits in relationships and how is that done realistically? What do you think about your sons and daughters using contraception?

87% of teens agree that they think it is important for teens to be given a strong message that they should not have sex until they are at least out of high school. Do you find this surprising, considering how much media says that teaching abstinence is silly? When do you want your children to start having sex?

62% of teens wish they were able to talk more openly about relationships with their parents. Teens want to hear not just about biology, but about healthy relationships.

You may find it helpful to read the chapter “Restoring Sexual Integrity” in our book “How To Survive Your Teen’s Pregnancy“.
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